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Writer's pictureSean Goh

5 Important Characteristics That Make True Friendships Last a Lifetime.

This blog post discusses 5 important characteristics that make true frienships last lifetime!



All of us have friends, unless you're an infant and somehow being able to read this, then that some wild acceptation. However, like that baby, the one thing we have in common is no matter how lonely we are there will always be someone out there for all of us. Maybe those paths haven't been crossed yet, or a chain of events are waiting to happen. Once friendships and bonds are formed, then comes maintenance. Fret not, here's five important characteristics that make true friendships last a lifetime.


Illustration of 2 friends happily playing with each other in nature.
Friendships are meant to last a lifetime. You've just to go find it!


1. A fun banter.


I just had to start out with a fun one, a friend l banter that is. My buddy and I have banters from time to time. We'll go up to each other and start the conversation with "How's it going, bastard". None of us are bastards but the point is, we do it every once in awhile. The real point is we are comfortable enough tp be doing that with one another. That also translates to our next point.



2. Being there for one another.


When the going gets rough, we always need a shoulder to lean on and/or an ear to hear you out. Just last week, I had some problems that got me so bothered that I could've sworn I would have just migrated to a whole other country. But I had someone to lean on and to share my word with which really made me feel good about myself and happy at the end of the day. Bonds like these will never die off and bonds like these are stronger than the ones that the blonde guy on the shopping channel said could hold two halves of a boat together. These bonds can never be bought anywhere in the world; it comes from a sincere heart.



3. Respect: Valuing Each Other’s Differences


Respect in a friendship means valuing each other’s opinions, decisions, and boundaries. It’s about appreciating each other's unique qualities and viewpoints, even if they differ from your own. To begin, I have many differences with my buddies, especially political. Sometimes, we end up at point number one. Most importantly, respectful friends support each other's growth and are careful not to overstep boundaries or make unwarranted judgments.



4. Communication: The Lifeline of Friendship


Have you been through a whole array of friendship drama? I've been in a whole load of those and sometimes even being responsible for starting one. Well well those were the collage days where we were all young, energetic, and full of testosterone (not like its gone but those metrics were through the roof). Effective communication is vital in sustaining a lasting friendship. It’s not just about regular conversations but also about the quality of these interactions. Being able to openly share thoughts, feelings, and concerns without fear of judgment keeps the friendship strong and resilient through various life stages.



5. Trust: The Foundation of Every Strong Friendship


Trust is the cornerstone of any lasting friendship. It's the unspoken promise that you will be there for each other, through thick and thin. This mutual trust is built over time, through consistent and reliable actions. It’s knowing that your secrets, fears, and dreams are safe with your friend, creating a bond that's unbreakable. Most importantly, you're got to honor those pinky promises. I know what it sounds like but a pinky promise sure goes a long way. AND HONOR THEM!



Through all those points, I would like to extend my gratitude to Vinny and Darryl. Do you have a friendship that has stood the test of time? Share your experiences and what makes it special to you.



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